First Date Nookie: Yay or Nay?

Is sex on a first date acceptable? Well, it depends on who you ask. Different people feel differently about giving up the cookies/getting the cookies during a first date. There's the age-old double standard that still lives on in regards to labels on a man and on a woman who choose to proceed with sex on a first date. Some guys say that if both parties involved are feeling one another that they're cool with it. Some guys feel that if a girl did it with him then she has clearly done it with everyone else and therefore aren't interested in pursuing anything further than a sexual relationship if any relationship at all. Other guys say "make me work for it". Just like men, women have different mentalities as well. The stigma behind first date sex is enough to make some women fore go the situation altogether, and just wait it out. Other women choose to wait anyway because they feel that it's the right thing to do. But, what about those girls who do decide to have sex on the first date? Is it fair to label them with a "scarlet letter"? This whole topic is debatable on so many levels. To be completely honest, I've been on both sides of the fence with this one. And although I haven't had any truly negative experiences behind it, in my opinion it's better to wait. Wait because you don't want to quickly involve your feelings in someone who you don't know what their intentions are; and intentions aren't something you discuss on a first date. Also, with so many girls using sex as as a weapon, you will be that one to stand out when you resist that temptation. Sex period just carries so much mental and emotional weight that it's important to know yourself and know exactly what you're after when you make the decision to lay with someone. If you're a woman who has first date sex frequently and experiences negative thoughts or situations behind your actions, take a deep and realistic look at the reasons why you're falling into this habit...and then change that habit. You look alot more powerful and alluring when he has to imagine what you have. So, having said that, I say "nay" to sex on the first date.