You Made Your Bed...Now Sleep

Alot of people tend to write checks that their ass can't cash. When you do or say certain things, you have to be able to stand up and take full accountability for those things. Here's a good rule of thumb: if you have to start your conversation off with "Don't tell anybody I told you this..." then you may want to reconsider saying what you're about to say and/or to whom you're about to say it to. The thing is, 9.5 times out of 10, the person you told not to tell is going to tell anyway, and all the bullshit is going to fall back on you. At that point, are you man or woman enough to take the heat? If not, then watch this sort of thing. If so, still, watch this sort of thing. Do you want to be known as the person who keeps drama going, or the town gossip? Those aren't nice titles to hold and only makes you look miserable. Once you dig this sort of a hole, the only honorable and stand-up thing left to do is to cop to it. There is no backdoor out of the bullshit. When you make your bed, you have to lie in it!